Before you talk with your partner next, ask yourself these
three questions. Are you feeling defensive? If you are,
take a step back. You may not be ready to speak to your
partner. Are you feeling desperate? If you are, take a
step back. You may not be ready to speak with your partner.
Are you feeling resentful and angry? If you are, take a
step back. You may not be ready to speak with your partner.
Just remember: the ball is in your court. How you react
to your partner's separation may determine the course
of your marriage.
three questions. Are you feeling defensive? If you are,
take a step back. You may not be ready to speak to your
partner. Are you feeling desperate? If you are, take a
step back. You may not be ready to speak with your partner.
Are you feeling resentful and angry? If you are, take a
step back. You may not be ready to speak with your partner.
Just remember: the ball is in your court. How you react
to your partner's separation may determine the course
of your marriage.
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Just because you have love for
your partner doesn't mean you can stop the arguing and disagreements,
because you don't know how to deal with built-up anger. Don't
forget the painful words said to each other in the heat of a fight. Once they have been said, they can never be taken back, not even
with a sorry! In fact, relying on love in such a way will frustrate
you both and end up putting more stress and pressure on your relationship,
making it impossible to make changes!
your partner doesn't mean you can stop the arguing and disagreements,
because you don't know how to deal with built-up anger. Don't
forget the painful words said to each other in the heat of a fight. Once they have been said, they can never be taken back, not even
with a sorry! In fact, relying on love in such a way will frustrate
you both and end up putting more stress and pressure on your relationship,
making it impossible to make changes!
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Here are some of the difficult marriage problems covered in the course.